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Theo; Precipice

By: Kelly "Native Child" Mays


(an open letter from Vincent Van Gogh to his brother Theo after death)

Shall we suffer for art?

find miracles in the silent and widely absurd,

mingle ash upon ash, bone upon bone,

tell stories of demons without faces and laugh

at this thing we call death

drink liquid sunflowers,

lie beneath starry nights,

toast our journey beyond

nightmares on canvas,

toast the carpenter who supplied frames

for our pictures and graves

what a useful man, helping me frame

both life and death.

I sometimes wonder how different

life would have been if I had not envied

the line between madness and genius,

if our mother had not taught me how to draw,

then resented me for painting her with

forgiving eyes – 

yet, all she will remember is one macabre event,

sacrificing my ear for love,

I never prospered from self-harm,

neither ear nor heart survived, 

I painted both,

by choice and by fate


The first words my daughter learned were, Daddy, No. at 13 months she watched as I fell into the precipice of a Greek Tragedy, I Persephone, her father Hades. by the time she was 5, she had learned to scream no louder than a whisper and repeat the clever lies I taught her to believe: Black girls and black eyes were synonyms. She learned to tuck her tears where her father could not find them, which scars, and scarves accessorized best the morning after Armageddon Safety plans became like fire drills. That’s why she would hide in the back of her 1st grade classroom–better to burn than face the devil. When she was 7, I overheard her praying, telling God that she’d hoped she never grow up to be like me. Telling God that she wasn’t sure if my depression would kill me first or her father. Either way, she know what dress I would wear and how to comb my hair when they buried me. I left her father that same year and cut that tree down we used to hide under every time that monster would come out from under her bed. Next year will be 10 years since I left her father. Her sister, only 5, can’t understand why we go back to that same tree trunk every year to count the rings; I know my daughter is still afraid of fire drills, and I have yet to throw away my scarves. They say 1 in 3 women will experience violence in their lifetime. I have two daughters, both who have inherited my eyes.


Kelly "Native Child" Mays is a spoken word artist, award winning slam poet, mother, word warrior, womanist, domestic violence survivor, and mental health therapist. She spends her days bridging the gap between conservative and radical feminism, volunteering on the speaker's bureau of various nonprofits dedicated to educating and ending domestic violence. She incorporates poetry into her activism, therapy, and into her everyday life. A Detroit native, she is proud of both her American Indian ancestry and her African American Ancestry, she blends both worlds into her poetry. Some of her more recent accomplishment includes, finalist in the 2018 Motown spoken word artist of the year, winner of the 2017 Motown Round Robin Spoken Word Competition. "Theo: I have always been fascinated with the work of Vincent Van Gogh, how he managed to create beauty beyond despair. I have struggled with depression, managing symptoms, desiring a life beyond depression; however, I have found that some of my best work has come through tragedy and trauma. I admire Van Gogh’s commitment to painting and his relationship with his brother Theo. I wrote this poem after researching the life of Van Gogh’s brother Theo, and the devotion he had for his brother. Theo, a renowned art dealer himself, was dedicated to his brother until his death. Post mortem they were buried next to each other, and I thought what would it be like if we could talk to those who loved us the most one last time after they were gone? I though it appropriate to do it in the open letter format because both Van Gogh and his brother were devoted to each other and wrote regularly to each other. Why not continue the letters after death? Precipice: I grew up listening to the stories my mother told me about her abusive- alcoholic father, lived through the hurricane that was my abusive alcoholic father, and inherited the disposition of collecting broken toys. I wrote this poem in the hopes that I would tell my story as well as pass a warning onto my daughters and that they might inherit the same disposition. This poem was particularly hard to write, I had to be honest with myself, my trauma, and with the fear I have about my daughters. It is one of the pieces I am particularly proud of because it helped me process the trauma of domestic violence and encapsulate my fears. Every time I perform it, I feel like I am reclaiming a piece of me lost to trauma."


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